Relationships

Right now being in a relationship is much more than its cracked up to be. Everyone claims that when you are in a relationship everything in life just seems much happier and sure the concept of this is true. Having someone to hold, someone to trust, someone to tell your deepest thoughts to, to confide in, just that sense of security. It all sounds good right but what about the arguments, the jealousy, the constant feeling that somethings not right noone goes into a relationship expecting these and in almost every relationship this is often the case.

Being in a relationship is very difficult because it is very hard to trust the person you are in a relationship with, especially if the person you are in a relationship with behaves as though they are not in a relationship at all. Constant flirting, Inconsideration and basically no respect for the relationship. Then arguments break out and the true test is whether you survive these tests or if you are too weak and fall into the cracks.
Jealousy is also a key factor in a relationship. If you are in a real relationship, you are bound to get jealous of something, but when these jealous spurs pop up it is best to talk to the person you are in the relationship with so that these jealous spurs do not turn into arguments and threaten to eat away at the foundations of your relationship
Have you noticed yet that alot of factors in a relationship often lead to arguments. Taking this into account i often find myself asking the same question, what is the point in being in a relationship if it only causes heartache and why even enter one in the first place

I would love to meet a female that challenges and disproves everything i have to say about being in a relationship and even 'change my world' and my perspective on it but until then i will remain unbelieving that there is such a thing as a happy couple.

Thanks for reading this

Krisis Goon